Maybe you have recently been involved in a lovers quarrel and now your ex boyfriend is ignoring you. You really do not consider the fact that after the quarrel he called you and said he needed space, but now he is ignoring any attempt to communicate with him. If this is what has happened to you, this positive action will have him begging for your love.

First of all, if he said he needs space and now will not communicate with you, that is a breakup and you should face the fact that he is gone for now. The reason he will not communicate with you is because he considers the relationship over. This might be a hard fact for you to face, but the sooner you do face it, the sooner he will be begging for your love. Instead of you still considering him as your boyfriend and trying to get him to talk things over, you need to focus on yourself and your needs. As long as you are desperate to get him back, you are taking a heavy toll on your emotions and your health. Nothing can be gained by constantly trying to get through to some one that is ignoring you.

When your ex boyfriend is ignoring you, fight fire with fire. Ignore your ex boyfriend the same as he is ignoring you. Stop trying to contact him and go on with your life. Some men are insecure and this causes them to constantly be testing the woman they are involved with. These men will cause you a lot of pain, unless you learn how to handle them or drop them entirely. If you love the guy and want a future with him, you will have to teach him a lesson he will not forget. Instead of you begging for his love, you want to have him begging for your love. Fortunately, insecure men are easy to handle once you know the emotional hot buttons to push.

The best way to treat your ex boyfriend that is ignoring you is as if he was a small boy. When a small boy gets angry and begins to pout because something displeased him, it is best to just ignore him. Since your ex boyfriend is acting like a child, treat him the same way. When he sees that you are not going to come after him and coax him to love you again, he will think that you do not care for him anymore. When he sees you out with your girlfriends having a good time, he will feel that he is missing out on all of the fun. This will prompt him to come out of his pout and try to make up to you.

Do not be too anxious to let him make up for his behavior. You do not want to discourage him, but make him work a little for you. Remember how he chased you when you first met. The reason he chased you was because you seemed unavailable to him. If you give him the appearance of being not too available now, this positive action will have him begging for your love.